The Gatekeeping Question, The Uncanniness of Dupes, and The Flop of the AI Trainer

A brand that didn't ask for defending, an AI fitness fail and more.....

🌶 THE GIST OF IT

Welcome to your biweekly roundup of all the contemporary cool girl news that’s fit to print. We’re breaking down a newly popular TikTok bag line, the lawsuit that reveals labels determine the price and so much more.

Also inside: the sweater that made men angry and a book rec about the highs and lows of complex female friendships.

Let’s go.

👜 Pierre Laborde and the Gatekeeping Question

photo c/o The Cut

The Memo: Haitian-born, NYC-based designer Pierre Laborde’s drop-shaped handbags—lauded for their vibrant colors and handcrafted details—exploded into viral fame thanks to TikTok. This visibility is a win for independent, Black-owned designers, demonstrating that originality and craftsmanship (not just massive ad budgets) are what fashion lovers crave.

The Big Picture: The subsequent cultural debate about who is “allowed” to spread the word about a Black-owned brand is fascinating. When predominantly white, high-follower influencers discovered and promoted the bags, a segment of the Black community pushed back, accusing them of “colonizing” a brand that had been quietly supported by its community for years. This tension isn’t about simple protectionism; it’s a necessary conversation about cultural ownership, equitable visibility, and the historical marginalization that makes the sudden mass adoption of Black creativity feel for some less like a celebration and more like a loss of sacred space. The situation compels us all to confront our own roles in amplifying—or exploiting—independent talent.

Shameless plug: our podcast episode about this situation can be found here (Apple) and here (Spotify).

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🏋️‍♂️ Lululemon Sues Costco: The Dupe Dilemma

The Situation: Lululemon is suing Costco, alleging the retailer is selling “confusingly similar” lookalikes—or “dupes”—of its bestselling products like the Scuba hoodies and Define jackets. The lawsuit highlights a central crisis in the modern athleisure market: how do you protect “trade dress” (the unique visual identity of a product) when the designs are inherently minimalist and easily copied, and consumers are actively looking for the lower-cost replica?

The Luxe Facade: The lawsuit serves as a quiet admission that Lululemon’s product quality, once its core differentiator, is now effectively replicated and accessible at a fraction of the price. The legal focus is on consumer confusion—arguing customers might mistake the $20 Costco jacket for the $128 Lululemon original. For the savvy consumer, however, the dupe phenomenon is a political gesture: it confirms that the difference between the premium product and the dupe is increasingly about labeling, marketing spend, and the cost of status, not material construction. This case confirms that the functional gap between luxury athleisure and its knock-off is shrinking.

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🚴 Peloton’s Second Wind and The Failings of the AI Trainer

The Breakdown: Peloton’s recent pivot to AI—including building its own Large Language Model, Peloton IQ, and using camera-based movement tracking—was framed as the future of fitness. However, the move has been met with skepticism and reports of failure. This high-tech misstep is a reminder that the value of Peloton was never the bike itself, but the community, accountability, and charismatic human instruction delivered by their rockstar trainers.

The Human Factor: The issue is that AI struggles with the psychological half of the fitness battle. It cannot offer tough love, discerning accountability, or wisdom to push you past the point of self-pity when you’re feeling exhaustion. Personalized guidance on form is one thing, but the human element—the shared anxiety of a race, the moral obligation to a training partner—is the real motivator that justifies the high monthly fee. The failed AI bike confirms that fitness is deeply psychological, and some things, especially motivation, still need a human coach.

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👨 J. Crew’s ‘Woke’ Sweaters and the Clothing Police

The Memo: J.Crew recently debuted a men’s pink Fair Isle sweater, which ignited a fierce (and frankly, baffling) online culture war. Conservative commenters erupted, calling the $168 sweater “feminine” and leaving scathing negative reviews on the website—despite not purchasing it. This was less about the sweater’s aesthetic and more about its social and political coding.

The Dilemma: This incident underscores how even the most innocuous items of clothing can become highly polarized political signifiers in our deeply fractured retail landscape. J.Crew, a brand that historically represented prep and clean-cut Americana, inadvertently became a battleground over gender norms and perceived masculinity. The volume of the outrage confirms that, for many, purchasing decisions are no longer about fashion but about which tribe you signal allegiance to, turning a simple pink knit into a stand-in for a national identity crisis.

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📚 TT BOOK REC: The Wilderness by Angela Flournoy

National Book Award finalist Angela Flournoy’s novel has delivered an era-defining portrait of friendship, tracing the lives of five Black women—Desiree, Danielle, January, Monique, and Nakia—from their early twenties through to their mid-forties. This long-awaited novel is a masterful and kaleidoscopic follow-up that explores the complexities of finding purpose, navigating career pivots, and the enduring, often tangled, thicket of female intimacy over two decades.

The novel is a vital read because it moves beyond the generic “Sex and the City” friendship trope to capture the precariousness of modern adulthood amid national upheavals like the housing crisis and racial reckonings. Flournoy’s craft is superb, using shifting perspectives to embed the reader deeply in her characters’ interior lives. It’s a beautifully written, wise, and intimate book that captures the struggle of achieving security and belonging in a world that is constantly shifting beneath their feet, marking it as a truly future classic about surviving contemporary American life.

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🧠 CULTURE CANDY (links to make you cool to talk to)

1. The Wage Wars: Why DoorDash and Uber Are Suing NYC Over a Tipping Mandate -The gig economy giants are challenging new laws that require them to prompt customers for a minimum 10% tip at checkout, arguing the move pressures consumers and violates their free speech rights.

2. Infrastructure Shame: How One MTA Accessibility Officer is Fighting a 117-Year-Old Problem -An interview with the MTA’s first Chief Accessibility Officer, detailing the political, financial, and architectural challenges of finally making the New York subway system truly usable for all citizens.

3. The New Best Friend: Why Teens Banned From Social Media Are Turning to AI Chatbots -After Australia banned social media for those under 16, millions of teens are treating AI chatbots with “endless patience” as accessible, non-judgmental, and constant mental health support.

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   🖤 UNTIL NEXT TIME...

   The girls are buying leggings and beef jerky in the same place (and the resemblance is uncanny), AI is no replacement for a gym buddy, and the right leaning men are mad about sweaters they didn’t buy. You? You’re watching it all and probably a bit more thankful for your trainer.

   xx Jenn,
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